Granted, sounds funny at first. Why should it be better to have fewer
friends ? Even back in school, it was always the case that the most popular
students fanned most of the friends around.
But a recent study from the US now wants to find out that a large circle of
friends is not even so good for us.
For the long-term study , published in the American magazine Child
Development, around 170 young adults between the ages of 15 and 25 were
observed.
The focus was on the friendships of the study participants and their
physical and psychological condition. The circle of friends of the participants
was also scrutinized by the scientists. Here, the subjects had to give
information about close confidants in their lives and information about their
well-being.
The researchers were able to evaluate possible signs of depression, anxiety
and self-esteem and social acceptance.
The result of the researchers was surprising. The most popular kids of the
school with a large circle of friends did not necessarily lead a happier life
later .
Rather, it turned out that teenagers, who at the age of about 15 years had
few but deep friendships, later suffered less often from depression. In
addition, the less liked in school later had a higher self-esteem and suffered
less often than a social phobia.