About us girls there are some clichés: We are good in multitasking, always go to the toilet for two and have to talk immediately with our friends. Is that all right? But a cliché is 100 percent correct: We notice immediately if something is wrong in our relationship .
As soon as our friend behaves weird, the alarm bells will ring immediately and the insecurity spreads in us. Does he have another , does he not love me anymore, or is there a problem he does not talk about?
If you become a natural partner to him then there are not many reasons for him to pay you attention. Or to think of something for you. Or to give you a pleasure. A very bad starting point for a happy relationship. You live side by side and you feel that your partner is very far away from you. You should definitely address that. Only then can you change something.
At the beginning of a relationship, one often neglects one's friends and prefers spending every spare minute with the new partner. Naturally, that sounds like time and everyone follows his own hobbies and interests. So if your lover wants to kick his boys weekend, instead of going to the lake with you, do not blame him. On the contrary, you can be happy because, according to studies , couples are the happiest who pursue their own hobbies and sometimes do something separately.
Sounds very flat at first, but it is. If your sweetheart is working towards a long-awaited promotion or just has an important project going, it may feel like you have taken a back seat. What's more, in the evenings, he constantly hangs on the laptop instead of cuddling you? Again, you should not worry, this time will pass. The best you can do at the moment is to support him and keep his back free. Concentrate a little on yourself and you will see, your sweetheart comes to you on its own.
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Sunday, February 25, 2018
Friday, January 26, 2018
Why you should have fewer friends
Granted, sounds funny at first. Why should it be better to have fewer
friends ? Even back in school, it was always the case that the most popular
students fanned most of the friends around.
But a recent study from the US now wants to find out that a large circle of friends is not even so good for us.
For the long-term study , published in the American magazine Child Development, around 170 young adults between the ages of 15 and 25 were observed.
The focus was on the friendships of the study participants and their physical and psychological condition. The circle of friends of the participants was also scrutinized by the scientists. Here, the subjects had to give information about close confidants in their lives and information about their well-being.
The researchers were able to evaluate possible signs of depression, anxiety and self-esteem and social acceptance.
The result of the researchers was surprising. The most popular kids of the school with a large circle of friends did not necessarily lead a happier life later .
Rather, it turned out that teenagers, who at the age of about 15 years had few but deep friendships, later suffered less often from depression. In addition, the less liked in school later had a higher self-esteem and suffered less often than a social phobia.
But a recent study from the US now wants to find out that a large circle of friends is not even so good for us.
For the long-term study , published in the American magazine Child Development, around 170 young adults between the ages of 15 and 25 were observed.
The focus was on the friendships of the study participants and their physical and psychological condition. The circle of friends of the participants was also scrutinized by the scientists. Here, the subjects had to give information about close confidants in their lives and information about their well-being.
The researchers were able to evaluate possible signs of depression, anxiety and self-esteem and social acceptance.
The result of the researchers was surprising. The most popular kids of the school with a large circle of friends did not necessarily lead a happier life later .
Rather, it turned out that teenagers, who at the age of about 15 years had few but deep friendships, later suffered less often from depression. In addition, the less liked in school later had a higher self-esteem and suffered less often than a social phobia.
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